Self esteem depends on your own self concept. In another word, what you care and what you matter most, when you are good at it, you feel good (boost self-esteem/confidence). Vice versa, if you are bad in things that you think it is important, you think you sucks (low self esteem/confidence). Easy ;p
Some living and pass example (P/S - Self esteem = SE, tired of repeating the same words again and again)
Bill Gates
| Dropout from Harvard | Unimportant | SE remains the same |
| Sense of Achievement for conning Asian to get addicted to Window | DAMN Important | SE shoots high!!!!!! |
| Million- worth of donation | Too many to spend, not bother | SE remains high |
| Look like nerd | Who bothers when you have $$$ | SE remains high |
Conclusion = SE high
Albert Einstein
| Hair-style | Pioneer to Korean idols (Referring to Boys Over Flower main actors). Yet, not important | SE= Don’t know. Well, I don’t think he even bother styling your hair since you will end up messing your hair when you do math. |
| Nobel Prize Winner | Duh, this is a dreamland for any scientists. Important!!! | SE= High, very very high |
| E= MC2 | I spent 3 months on this during Form 5 physics class. It is must be hard for him to develop this. Important!!! | SE= High + High = So high (It is not what you think it is) |
| Money | Nah, he has all the fame and books he ever dreamt of. | Not important. SE remains so high. |
Conclusion = SE high
| Currently World No. 1 golfer | Important, but nothing compared to his wife. Not important now.
| SE= fairly low |
| Affairs!!!!! | I would be happy if I’m him. But, to him, it is no longer something to be proud of now. Not important
| SE= very low (a.k.a Low V, I’m trying to be lame) |
| Career Break | That’s the K.O punch, to complete the final part of the misery. Very important
| SE= L.O.W (He is bad in things that he matters most)
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| Money | I guess money is the fuel for all these affairs. So, important to both me and Woods. (Once your wife returns, you will resume your routine, then you’ll need back all your money) | SE= Low, but below fairly low, above Low V |
Conclusion = SE low
Edward Chan Waihong
| Any random achievements and awards | You mean kindergarten’s top student award? That’s important | SE= High (I can only obtain my sense of pride via expired awards) |
| Shopping | Look at all the ‘prizes’ in my wardrobe and I bet that can make thousands of girls scream!!! | SE = Very high |
| College Performance | No comment | SE= High (Dropped a bit) |
| Money | ……… Cukup cukup pakai | SE = Neutral (Dropped again) |
Conclusion = SE neutral
See the table above, it is really depends on your personal opinion whether or not you think you are good. Don’t just look at things that you are sucks in. Explore fields that you are unique and good with. Now, stand up (beware, don’t hit on your com) and be proud of yourself. ;p
