Thursday, July 30, 2009

The Feeling, F E E L!!!!!!

When you watched singing competition, the most famous/ frequent dialogoue from the judges will be ' You have a wonderful vocal but lack of feeling'. ' Your singing is not touching enough'. 'You sing as if you are a device, design to sing according to the notes and lyric'

When you watched a movie, many of us will critic that the actor is lack of feeling. His/her performance especially during crying/ someone died is so fake, the face is so numb, like no feeling and emotion.

In psychology, such emotion/feeling is equal to empathy. You are able to feel what other feel. For example, in a movie, when your 'dog' (i dont want to focus on any of my relatives) died, unless you really have a dog that died and you remember the current emotion/feeling, it is really hard to imagine. Thats the reason many actors get mad after acting in certain movie. They are obssessed and couldn't escape from the cast. Especially western movie, whereby CG took at least 50% of the whole scene, basically you are acting in front of a green background. Imagine how idiot Harry Porter and Megan Fox acting, talking to the 'invisible' character in front of the shooting crews..... Thats why their salary is so exaggerate. ;p

It seem that knowing how to manipulate and use your feeling can make bunch of money :D. Strange, I thought everyone have these ability to feel and react towards certain condition, regardless good or bad. Our emotion are covered by so many external elements and basically we are starting to lost it. We think that all of us are really emotional (emo ma, everyone uses this word without knowing the real definition) and basically able to react normally towards certain condition.

How many of you feel pity to your lecturer that spend a hell 2 hours with devils (Student, like me)?

How many drivers feel pity for those P-licenced newbie driver? Ok, just how many of you will let them go first?

How many of you will appreciate your maid at home, feeling pity for them as they left their home and work in a complete different environment and get scold or torture by their 'master' whenever they please to?

Why it is so hard for us to react like what we suppose to be?
Having high EQ (able to control emotion) may sound cool but as time passes by, you started to neglect your intial emotion, the original way of how you handle your emotion and feeling.

Think again..... Feeling is a money mine if you know how to use it right (still you need to be good-looking. Not everyone have empathy to below average looking individual)

F-E-E-L it!!!!!